Fight Back To School 2

Wedding in the air?

Hello there. I was married Sept. 21, 2006. Lawyer husband tries to declare it null and void. According to my lawyer ... we are all married in the state. Now, his two wives joined in this ex and my ex-husband .... and all are former heads of children and the filling ours with lies ... I love my husband and want the marriage to work ... but we have not spoken since New Year's Eve (he is stationed overseas.) There is a woman he claims to be his "friend" who calls and leaves threatening messages .... All this is secondary ... I just want my life back and for everyone to leave us alone to work on our lives ... Should I continue to fight for .... marriage or to leave (he has cut all communications, won all the $ $, closed all accounts, CX and my insurance kid's stage and is everyone on everything that has happened even with us .. his chaplain ....?) Feel free to IM me

I do not know how old you are, but you seem you have a good head on his shoulders. If you can, anul the marriage or the file for separation and out of there and never look back. I do not know why you married in this disaster, but out quickly and focus on a happy life. It will wreck you if you may. Bring your kids and go. Do not even think to leave this mess fruits of your poor children. protect and take care of you and you are certainly doing the right thing.

Do not really seem like there is nothing to keep. It has evolved. It is time for you to do the same. Holding that will hurt you and give it more power.

Move on .... looks like he does not want you and even took your money!

Girl, you want it, chalk it a bad experience, and get on with your life. Do not look back.

Firstly, the fact that he has already had two divorces have to tell you something.

Sooooo, what you now have a man who lies, cheats, and steals. If you do not want to protect him, you could at least save your child for having foresight as a father.

OK, he has two female ex, and you have an ex-husband?

They are all involved in this field and you are both enabling?

Too many former and apparently the children of these marriages have failed.
If you have no children together, allow this mess to disappear with the divorce papers.

If you have children together, you should wait until your husband is stateside and military advice to both of you, without outside inf, uence of others, we hope, anyway. Both of you need to do some serious growing up and depend on each other rather than others and their opinions of your marriage. We hope that with a team of objective advice, which could be obtained.

If you want your marriage to work, you work hard and not give up so easily. Who cares if it is cut all communications, terminate accounts, and whatever. Mine does the same thing and now we're back together. He does it all the accounts were closed and not answering his phone because he tries to convince himself that what he wants and thinks is what he has to do. It will eventually give way to reality and he will come and bite like the $. Do not call him, let him call you and I can assure you it will if we ask why you have not tried to contact him. Be it at the moment.

let it go ....... it ......

Think about what you can learn from this situation. You have not even been married five months! Obviously this marriage was wrong before it starts. If your husband is not willing to try it out, then there is not much else you can do, eh?

you know what honey if he did everything he is not worth your time or effort to fix things .. Why would you do?

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